Are you capable of caring for someone else or their situation?
Caring looks like what they think it is – not as much what you think it is.
You can only do what you are able to. But realize the boundaries.
If someone asks you to house sit, you don’t come in and rearrange the furniture.
Reorganizing their house would be how you live and not of much help ultimately.
If they ask for you to care for their child, they have rules that they abide by – do you feed them whatever you want, let them do anything?
Your version of caring helps another person when it’s the best you can do about what the other person cares about.